I was lucky enough many years ago—okay it was
the mid-nineties—to have been exposed to a methodology for quickly analyzing
people by observing some of their most obvious personality characteristics. It
isn’t a perfect system, but it’s very helpful, especially when time is of the
essence as it often is in business relationships.
These observations can assist
you in classifying people into a framework of “social types” and will help in understanding
where they are coming from and how to more effectively interact with them. A
good reference is "Knowing About Social Styles," by Merrill and Reid. The descriptions
below are meant to be representative and typical rather than absolute.
The Four Personality Types
The Driver: Drivers are action and goal oriented and need to see
results quickly. They are very disciplined, decisive, practical and efficient.
They employ facts and data to make their points and are quick to speak as well
as act. In conversations they will lean forward, point, and make direct eye
contact, displaying contrived facial expressions and rigid body posture. They
don’t waste time on preliminaries or personal exchanges and are perceived as
dominating, harsh, and severe in pursuit of goals. Comfortable in positions of
power and control, their offices are arranged in businesslike fashion with
certificates and commendations hanging on the walls. In times of stress,
drivers can become autocratic. They drive bronze or silver cars.
The Analytical: Analyticals are over organized
and want to have the facts before taking action. They need to be accurate,
right, precise, orderly, and methodical. They conform to organizational
procedures and rules. They work more slowly and carefully than drivers and are
perceived as industrious, persistent perfectionists. When talking, they speak
slowly and gesture with their hands. Seldom will they make direct eye contact,
and they tend to control their facial expressions. They are seen as stuffy,
indecisive, critical, hard to please and didactic. They relish being in positions
where they can check facts and figures to ensure they are right. Their offices
are neat, well-organized and often drab. In times of stress, analyticals avoid
conflict. They drive white or black cars.
The Expressive: Expressives enjoy
interpersonal action and excitement. They are socially stimulating and enthusiastic.
They are idea centered and effective in involving and motivating others. Having
little concern for routine, they are future oriented. Their response to stimuli
is often more extreme than necessary. They are friendly, want to be accepted,
and will focus on people instead of tasks. They use opinions, hearsay, and
stories rather than facts and data. In conversations, they are relaxed and lean
forward, speak quickly, vary their vocal tones, point and make random eye
contact. The way they are feeling is written across their faces, and others
perceive them as emotional, rash, willful, dramatic, manipulative, ambitious
and egotistical. Their offices are highly disorganized. In stressful situations,
expressives are inclined to resort to personal attack. They will talk about
anything that comes into their heads without a care as to whether anyone is
interested. They drive red or yellow cars.
The Amiable: Amiables strive for
co-operation, personal security and recognition. They will avoid conflict at
all costs. Valuing personal relationships, they enjoy helping others and want
to be liked. They will sacrifice their own objectives to gain the approval of
others. They prefer to work as part of a team, rather than by themselves, and
they are unhurried in reaction to stimuli and have little concern for effecting
change. They are people oriented, always friendly, respectful, willing and
dependable. Like expressives, they rely on opinions and hearsay rather than
facts and data. In conversations they speak softly and methodically, using
vocal inflection more than drivers or analyticals, and their posture is casual,
their expression animated. They lean back while talking and seldom make eye
contact. They are perceived by others as conforming, hesitant, malleable,
dependent and ill at ease. Their offices are homely with family photographs,
plants etc. An amiable's reaction to stress is to conform to the will of
others. They drive green, off-white, brown or green cars.
Most people have dominance in two of the social types, and they may show
minor influences of one or both of the other two. It is helpful to give a
person a grade based on a scale of one to ten for each of the types to get a
more complete handle on the whole personality, e.g. Driver—6; Analytical—7;
Expressive—2; Amiable—5. That’s me.
Remember, this is just a technique to help you better adjust to who you
are dealing with. It can help you paint an advance picture of what to expect,
e.g. as a potential friend, employee or employer. An observation of interest
is, in general, analyticals don’t get along well with amiables, and drivers
don’t like dealing with expressives. Analyticals and drivers are typically okay
together as are expressives and amiables.
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For those interested in fiction thrillers, the status of coming adventure-thrillers and other books under construction can be found on my website: www.marshallchamberlain.com.
Best Wishes,
Marshall
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